Today I went to a home where the patient was my age. He was actively dying after giving a very brave fight to his cancer- 2 weeks ago he was out to dinner- his wife lamented. You see, young patients can hold and compensate during terminal illness fairly well until they can’t. And they tumble quickly from an active life into the dying process. His son was in charge of his comfort meds and this young man had many questions wanting to make certain he was doing everything correctly. He was. He was doing everything from Love, you can’t get any more correct than that. After spending time reviewing and answering it was time to go. The patient was comfortable and clean, hanging in the balance between the worlds.
As I was walking out the door the son stopped me- “Can I ask you something?”- yet another concern- others had called him and shared their experiences with their dying loved ones- they had done it differently- was he doing it right? We walked through his fears and addressed each one. He stood between me and the door, clearly he did not want me to leave yet.
I sensed his need, “Can I give you a hug?” I asked.
“I thought you’d never ask!” he smiled. He stepped into my space and this young man melted into my arms, I felt our energies meld and he tucked his head on my shoulder like a small child would. It was a sweet moment. When the exchange was complete he released me of his embrace and thanked me again. It was a beautiful moment, one I needed as much as he did. It fed my soul and brought me comfort and I can only hope it did for him as well.
As I open up to Spirit I experience more and more lovely moments of energy exchanges- it is always Loving, Love is who we are, Love is all we need.